Dessert. We all love it. I know there are people who say they’d rather eat another baked potato than a piece of cake but I have a sneaking suspicion that if they were really being honest with themselves and there were no consequences to the cake, they’d go for it. Full hog.
I regularly get emails from people wanting to know how to eat more dessert, asking questions such as, “How can I lose weight and still get my fair share of sweets?”
I know this person is in big trouble. The words ‘fair share’ let me know that she feels deprived. It doesn’t have to be that way.
Now don’t think that I’m suggesting that you willy-nilly eat dessert for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Instead, I’m urging you to rethink the way you approach food and dessert.
Hallie Klecker, my dear friend from Daily Bites, has put together an month-long event called New Year, New You to help us do exactly that. This week’s theme is Swapping Your Sweets. I know a little something about the topic and am thrilled to share my thoughts. Also, make sure to stop by her website for a Natural Sweeteners Gift Pack giveaway!

I could write for weeks about coconut palm sugar, yacon syrup, honey, agave, grade B maple syrup, date sugar and the other unrefined sugars I love to use. (And, yes, they have a form of sugar in them. No cane sugar products and no refined sugar, though.)
Why no refined sugar? Well, here’s the best description I’ve ever read from one of my food idols. Note that honey is specifically being addressed, however I find it to be true for all unrefined sugars:
I can eat dessert made with unrefined sugar in moderation because my body naturally knows when I’ve had enough.
So, how then would I suggest swapping your sweets?
- Go Natural. By this I don’t mean unrefined sugars. I’m talking about fruit. Cut out dessert for two weeks and instead eat fruit. Your palate will change.
- Eat more veggies. Yes, more veggies. Eat them raw, eat them cooked, eat them sauteed. Just eat more. The better your overall nutrition is the less you’ll crave sweets.
- Balance your diet, whatever that means for you.
Once your diet is healthier and your body is no longer jonesing for a cream-filled Twinkie, try adding in sweets made with unrefined sugars in moderation. Who knows, you may not even want the Twinkie anymore.
You might be wondering how this can possibly come out of my mouth, or more accurately from my fingertips, when I love to bake. I’ll let you in on a little secret – I eat my desserts in moderation. Many days I eat none. When I’m testing a recipe I try a small bite. Just because I’m passionate about creating delicious food does not mean that I eat dessert all day long. You shouldn’t either.
When you bake, rethink your recipe. How can you:
- use natural sweeteners instead of refined sugar?
- use fruit for flavor, moisture, and added nutrition?
- reduce the overall added sugar content with stevia or a healthier alternative to white sugar?
- increase the nutritional quality of the dish with superfoods?
Next Thursday, I’ve got an incredible grain-free orange cake for you that demonstrates one way I like to swap my sweets. Until then, browse these other gluten-free recipes for ideas on making your sweets a little healthier:
- Raw Date Truffles
- Zucchini Cookies with a Lemon Cream Cheese Drizzle
- Banana Carob Snack Cake
- Chocolate Strawberry Layer Cake
- Flourless Chocolate Torte with ‘Powdered Sugar’
- Vegan Health Bar Cookies
For more tips on swapping your sweets check out:
- Maggie’s Cookie Dough Milkshake
- Ricki’s Low-Fat Cinnamon Walnut Loaf
- Iris’s Banana Chocolate Chunk Cookies
- Lexie’s Candied Walnuts
Have any tips for swapping your sweets? And, don’t forget to stop by Hallie’s place and enter her give-away!












Hallie @ Daily Bites
posted on January 19, 2012 at 9:51 am
Stellar tips as usual, Amy! Thank you so much for participating in NYNY and sharing your experience/story with swapping sweeteners.
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Kate
posted on January 19, 2012 at 10:26 am
Wow, great post. Thanks so much for sharing… I’m definitely one of those people caught between wanting to lose weight but still wanted my tasty treats – this post was perfect for me today!
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Kim (Cook It Allergy Free)
posted on January 19, 2012 at 10:40 am
So well put, Amy. I love your tips and ideas here. It is amazing how, as we start changing out our sweeteners, our tastes also change. I cannot even eat more than a bite of something with refined sugar in it anymore. Just too sweet!
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Maggie
posted on January 19, 2012 at 11:23 am
These are amazing tips Amy. I am so with you! My palate has definitely changed and I am so thankful for that. I feel so much better. And it’s nice to hear how you manage your sweets intake. Thanks for sharing – you were the one who inspired me to try living without refined sugars. I am so grateful. xo
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Tessa@TessaDomesticDiva
posted on January 19, 2012 at 12:12 pm
OK, did I miss a post? When did you have your baby? How are you doing?
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Amy Reply:
January 19th, 2012 at 9:55 pm
@Tessa@TessaDomesticDiva, No, still pregnant. Due on 2/16.
I feel great…we’re so excited to meet our little boy. Thanks so much for your sweet thoughts.
Hugs!
Amy
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Tessa@TessaDomesticDiva Reply:
January 19th, 2012 at 10:27 pm
@Amy, I thought I was REALLY losing it…you made reference to feeling sleep deprived…I am betting (if this is out of the norm for you) that you are going though nature’s little crash course in getting you ready to have a baby…insomnia of late stage pregnancy!! So excited for you, such an amazing time, my heart melts every time I think of one of my little ones as infants….
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Judy@Savoring Today
posted on January 19, 2012 at 1:48 pm
Great, straightforward advice.
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Amber
posted on January 19, 2012 at 3:34 pm
Hello Amy,
I do believe this email hits home with many! I’m not personally a big sweet tooth (never have been), but I live with a man who’s always ravenous for sweets. So I bake quite a bit for him and my kids. I find it extremely easy to bake with alternative sweeteners. But changing to alternative sweeteners can feel like a huge undertaking. With time and experimentation it becomes second nature.
Great post, great advice.
And I just read Tessa’s comment…did you have your baby?? Congratulations! This is such a special time. I remember those sweet (albeit sleepless days) adjusting to the new energy in the house. It’s so awesome! Rest and take care.
Hugs,
–Amber
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Amy Reply:
January 19th, 2012 at 9:52 pm
@Amber, I’m still pregnant…baby is due on 2/16. Thanks for the sweet thoughts. We’re so excited.
I agree with you about the sweeteners….it does become second nature.
xoxo,
Amy
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Lexie
posted on January 19, 2012 at 6:36 pm
Amy,
Loved reading this post. And so true, the battle is lost the moment we feel deprived. I so enjoy your “be gentle with yourself” approach. xoLexie
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Wendy @ Celiacs in the house
posted on January 20, 2012 at 7:33 am
I’m so glad you mentioned the eat your veggies part. I have noticed that when I am packing in the nutrients, I don’t have the cravings or the over-eating I used to. It is such a key component to moderate eating. Good stuff here, Amy.
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Alisa
posted on January 20, 2012 at 5:44 pm
Great tips Amy! Yacon is one I still haven’t tried, but am thinking that I need to give it a go soon.
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Megan
posted on January 22, 2012 at 3:39 pm
Hi Amy,
What are your thoughts about the information regarding agave nector being worse than HFCS? I am brand new to eating sugar and gluten free and was really excited to use Agave. Now, I’m really hesistant as I’m reading that it’s got a higher fructose content than high fructose corn syrup, and, is typically highly processed with chemicals. Help!
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Amy Reply:
February 2nd, 2012 at 3:56 pm
@Megan, I think it’s ok in moderation. I don’t use it to sweeten my beverages and when I use it in a recipe there’s about two teaspoons in a cupcake. I use it less than I used to. I’ve really been enjoying coconut palm sugar. I’ve also been using more honey.
Hugs,
Amy
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InTolerant Chef
posted on January 23, 2012 at 3:10 pm
Good tips, everything in moderation dip you don’t feel deprived and rebel
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Jessica
posted on February 20, 2012 at 12:03 pm
I love this! Especially the part about how sugar should have a natural gag reflex! It never made sense to me how people could say something was “too sweet” for them. Now I get it!
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Vicki W
posted on February 23, 2013 at 10:41 pm
I want to substitute palm sugar for agarve in cake recipies. The Apple Carrot Breakfast Cake uses 1/2 cup palm sugar, how much agarve would I use?
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Vicki W
posted on February 23, 2013 at 10:43 pm
I want to substitute palm sugar for agarve in cake recipies. The Apple Carrot Breakfast Cake uses 1/2 cup palm sugar, how much agarve would I use?
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